Monday, January 26, 2009

Catching Up

Well I haven't written in a long time. (almost three months) So here are the highlights.

November: Jeremy was working and Julian was healing well. We went to my Moms for thanksgiving and I got to have Friday off so I was able to help them get their Christmas decorations up and Grandma let me decorate her apartment too. Melaina didn't get to be in the thanksgiving parade but she saw her friends on TV. I was training in the Cash office at work and still getting a lot of hours.

December: We decorated our house in blue silver and white Christmas decorations. Jeremy got December pretty much off because his contract ended and that meant nothing until after the holidays. Julian got his boot off right before the snow. We all had fun building a snow slide and snow forts out of the snow I shoveled off the driveway. Our friends flew in from Kansas to visit with his family and us for the holidays. Christmas was fun. I worked a short shift in the morning on Christmas eve and when I got home we celebrated with the kids. They went to there Dads house for Christmas day and Jeremy and I just stayed home and had a nice quiet day. The Saturday after Christmas the snow was finally melting and we went to celebrate Christmas with Julian's family. It was at Sherry's house and her street was still deep with slush. The next day (my birthday) we finally made it down to my moms to celebrate Christmas and birthdays. It was a lot of fun.

January: Jeremy and I had our nine year anniversary. I have gotten quite good at the cash office and Jeremy started his second week of his new job today. This is a long call so that gives me some hope. Travis and Deb (the friends who came to visit) decided to stay and are actually staying with us for three months. Travis had his first day of work the same day as Jeremy. After his three months of training he will be a maintenance supervisor at an apartment complex in Kent and they will get an apartment then. My hours have been cut back. (normal for retail after the holidays) I had my six month review day before yesterday and I did well. I got a raise. I expect to do better at my one year. I have very high expectations for myself.

So, there you have it. Life is busy but Life is GOOD.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Always willing to try something new

Well my sweet cousin is using blogger so I thought since I had to create a profile in order to follow her blog I would try it out and see if I like it better than my current blogging tool. We'll see.

Monday, November 3, 2008

One Scary Halloween

Ok, for those of you who want just the basics. Friday afternoon at about three thirty Julian was coming home from the store and was crossing 76th when he was struck by a police car. He was taken to Harborview and was checked over very thoroughly. He came home just after midnight with a concussion and a broken leg.

Now the in depth account.

I got home from work at just after three in the afternoon and Julian met me on the front porch to ask if he could run down to Top Foods to see if they had any black hairspray for Melaina's costume. I said yes and off he went. I went into the carport and talked to my Mom on the phone for a bit then she needed to go so they could shampoo the carpet. As I stepped out of the carport Melaina and Ashton had come out and Melaina was checking to see if Julian was back yet. We saw just down the street several police cars gathering. Now we have lived on this corner for six and a half years so we are quite accustomed to car accidents and I mentioned that I didn't see any cars that appeared to have had an accident so maybe someone got hit by a car. We watched for a minute as more and more emergency vehicles arrived. During which time I had Ashton take my witch hat in the house and I put on my knit hat. As we were standing there I suddenly thought oh my god Julian walked to the store. I said to Melaina "What if it's Julian?" I told them to wait there while I go check.

I hurried down to the scene and saw feet and one leg and thought it looked like it was Julian. I still wasn't sure but my gut said it was. A police officer was asking me to move back and I was stepping back and saying I think it is my son. Do you have a name is it Julian Robertson. One of the EMT's moved enough for me to get a glimpse of his face and yes it was Julian. I continued backing up to the side walk and telling the officer I'm his mom his name is Julian Robertson. After that they got really nice. He said ok we will let you see him in just a second and you can go to the hospital with him we are sending him to Harbor view. I said ok I need to grab my purse it's just right there and I pointed to Aston and Melaina in the driveway. He asks which car and I responded no there in the yard my kids have it. He said ok and I was off back up the street to Melaina and Ashton. I said it's Julian I got my purse from Aston and told them go in the house and wait. I then hurried back to the scene and one of the EMT's escorted me to the side door of the aid car. I took a cleansing breath, put on a calm expression and climbed in. I said "Hi sweetie, how are you doing?" Julian looked up and said "Good, what happened?" I said "You got hit by a car." He responded with "Oh, what was I doing?" I said "You went to the store." I heard someone ask if he had any ID. So I asked him "Do you have your wallet?" He felt in his pocket and said no. At this point they are cutting his clothes off of him and I am being directed back out of the ambulance.

It was clear that there would not be room for me to ride in the ambulance with him so I started back toward my house and called my mom told her what happened hung up called Jeremy told him and asked where he was he was almost home so I said I would wait for him and go down to the hospital with him. I called Stacy and Matt. Then as I was going to put water in the radiator of the car Debbie called me and said she was bringing Luke to the hospital and did I need a ride. I told her that Jeremy was coming and that I would go with him. As I was putting the hose away I suddenly thought that I had not seen a car at the scene so I asked the officer who was standing with me "Was it a hit and run? I don't remember seeing a car." He said no it was officer so and so (don't remember the name) I think my only response to that was a really surprised "OH." I know I had told Jeremy not to use 76th that it was all blocked so he came in the back way just as I was capping the radiator. Three officers ran up to him and told him where I was and that an officer would be escorting us down to the hospital.

Most of the ride there was phone calls Stacy asking if she could take the kids to her house. Me calling Matt to tell him the kids were going to Stacy's. My  mom and my sister. I know I was too wound up to  look out the front window and I remember just before we got to the hospital thinking how sore my stomach was and realizing that I was tensing my abs and that I could not relax them. I think that is where the saying "My stomach is in knots." comes from.

When we got to the hospital it was just wait he was in having a CT scan and then x-rays so it would be an hour or more before we would hear anything. Finally I was able to go back and see him. He really looked ok. he looked tired but he only has like six scrapes and the ones on his face looked like a tiny bit of rug burn. I think the descriptions of my dads face when he fell and really did have rug burn were worse than Julian. Anyway by this time Julian is able to remember more of what happened and one of the many doctors said that it is common to have amnesia and that he would likely remember even more the next day. I don't remember when or how the rest of the information came to me but he had a trauma induced seizure when he was hit, bleeding between his skull and his skin causing a bruise and concussion, a break in the non weight bearing bone in his leg and six scrapes. He is one lucky kid. He threw up a couple of times as we were trying to leave the hospital to come home but has kept everything down since then. He also has full recollection of everything but the impact itself. He never saw the car and woke up on the ground.

So, there you have it as best as I can tell it at this point. I am exhausted and relieved my brain is still fuzzy and I don't have a concussion.  Thank you to everyone who helped, stopped by or sent well wishes or prayers.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Homecoming/Work/Whatnot

Melaina looked great for her homecoming dance last week. I thought I would share the picture of her. I love the red shoes with that dress. I am still learning that things do not need to match they need to go. Plus Stacy and Clinton talk about wearing a great shoe that really makes a statement. Melaina comes by that kind of thinking naturally. Cracks me up that she calls those her whore heals. I never even told her that when I used to wear them I called them my hoochy shoes.

Work is still going great. I had my first review a couple of weeks ago and scored very well. I have been getting full time hours since then and am still loving working there. having a week off from doing mark downs has been fun. I got to help move every rack in the center of the store. aka "the infield" I moved the clearance hand bags, stocked a lot of 60/80 (the home décor stuff), kids, toys and clothing for the infield. After the move I realized that one of the racks was backwards so there were active tops then active shorts and then the rest of the active tops. It was making me crazy so I fixed it. I got to help Holly for part of one day doing some office type work. Yesterday was a great day for my OCD tendencies. My project was to remove all the sheet sets, duvet covers, pillow cases and shams. Then after resetting the shelf heights with Anthony for the entire isle I got to put them all back. When I was done they were in order of size and grouped by brand in each size. same with the duvet covers and I even sized the pillow cases and pillow shams. It looked beautiful. I spent most of the rest of the day putting everything on the correct racks in misses clothing. It was a fun day.

My Nephew Kayle came up from Arizona and hung with us for a couple of days. It was great to see him and spend a little time getting to know him. I haven't ever really had the opportunity to spend more than a couple of hours with him and that has always been at a family gathering so really no one on one time. We got a picture of him at his best. You might almost think he is a sweet kid when he is asleep. Ha ha ha jk Kayle. =)

Got a lot of chores done around the house last night and today. My Mom and Dad are coming up to visit with their friends and are stopping by here for a bit first. Today is my Mom's birthday so I am glad we get to see her. We are going to sew some buttons on Melaina's shorts and go to T.J. Maxx so she can return a shirt that she got last time and get something else. This is a great weekend to do it because we are giving an additional 25% off on all clearance items so she may get more for her money. Of coarse I am kind of hoping I can convince her that she really wants to buy me a new pair of pants that I can wear to work. hehe

Anyway hope all is well with everyone else. Happy birthday also to Niki and Sherry hope you both have a good one.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Life is...

Well, Jeremy's job great as it was is now over. The VA Hospital was set to be his next site and that got pushed back to November and the other job sites they had are all at Boeing. So, with Boeing on strike there is no work for him. The company he was working for really liked him and his work and they were really unhappy about letting him go. So, now we are down to just my income which totally sucks but we will get by. We have been through worse. I don't think I will see any child support from the ex during the strike either seeing as he works at Boeing. Really Boeing machinists have hit me with a double whammy. We were so close to being all caught up on our bills too. Now we will get behind again.

On the bright side though I love my job and I am doing well. people seem quite happy with my work. We were able to take care of back to school stuff for the kids and hey we still have the food bank for groceries. I have two new tops, a cardigan, a couple good pairs of shoes and a three dollar pair of Capri's for work so I can wait for anything else new.

New blouse Capri's and shoes

new top and shoes

 

new cardigan

I have the sweet schedule for work so far. I seem to be getting a long shift on Sunday usually 12-8:30 then 7-3 on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. Wednesday and Saturday off. This week Thursday and Friday is the beginning of the 6-2 shift. I guess corporate wanted to make it start at 4am but our manager wasn't having that. 6-2 is great for me. I wake the kids before I leave and am home when they get home from school to make sure homework and chores get done. I think this is the best schedule I have ever had in retail. Of coarse I realize that it is subject to change since it is retail. So far so good though. I love the people I am working with they are a great bunch of people.

This has become a great outlet for what Melaina likes to tease is my OCD. Ok I have never been diagnosed with obsessive compulsive disorder but Melaina swears I have it. Just because the towels must be folded a certain way and stacked by color in the closet. Or the fact that I have my shirts hanging in my closet in order of sleeve length, color and if they have a collar or not. It just makes it easier to find what you want if you know it goes tanks, sleeveless, sleeveless with a collar, short sleeve, short sleeve with a collar, long sleeve long sleeve with a collar and all are in color order in each group. Anyway I get to do that kind of thing at work all the time and it makes me happy and it keeps me from excessively organizing the kids things. Jeremy would throw a fit if I ever got my hands on the movies again. He has them in some kind of weird order that makes sense to only him. I once organized them in alphabetical order by genera. He was not pleased.

So, some not so good, some good. Sometimes

Life is...

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Happy Feet!

Well it has been quite a while since I have written a blog. I have been working and enjoying my time off with my family and to tell the truth I haven't even missed my computer. I thought for sure I would have gone through some kind of blogging withdrawals but, no. So my feet. I have been wearing these shoes that Heather gave me a couple of years ago. Nice and certainly no problem when I did real estate but not so good on a hard floor for five or more hours. The inside lining started coming out my second week of work and the soles were hard. By day before yesterday my feet were crying. Well screaming really and I knew it was time for new shoes. Something that anyone in retail or the food industry can relate to I am sure. So after work I stuck around and tried on some shoes. I found a pair of black slip on Aerosoles. And a really cute brown pair with an open toe. I had first thought I should wait until the weekend after Labor Day when we get 20% discount but I just didn't think I could get through another week of work with the shoes I have and the only other option I had in black was a pair of old athletic shoes that I used sharpie on to cover the paint drips. So I got the black ones and set the brown ones aside until the 20% weekend. As soon as I stepped out of the store I took the stickers off and put them on. My feet gave out an immediate sigh of relief. Yesterday I worked from 7am-3pm and my feet did not hurt. I have happy feet. I really look forward to getting the brown ones but if I need to I do have a pair of brown shoes that don't hurt my feet and a pair of slip on ones that only make my ankles a little sore because the heal is a bit higher. The lesson here is don't wear hard soled shoes on a hard floor. Not a good combo. I have been loving the weather lately because it gives me way more clothing options. I was a bit skeptical about getting a job in retail again but I am really enjoying it. The people I work with are great and it is a completely different experience working when the store is open and not at all as scary as I thought it would be.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Kitchen Table!

Well after working for six days straight I finally had a day off. I did not rest however. No, I got every box out of my kitchen/dining room and put them in the attic. Then after picking up the kids we got the table and chairs out of the shed and brought them in.

So now I am exhausted but happy.